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After The First Date.. Is He Busy Or Not Interested?

I met a great guy recently. We had excellent conversation and a lot in common. He’s older than I am (he’s 42 and I’m 28), but I like older men and he led me to believe he was looking for something serious and that he really liked me (to add, he’s single never married, no kids). I spent the night with him on one occasion, and we’ve emailed back and forth since. He travels a lot for work, but our last email was open-ended in that he’d be traveling for work this week. I am waiting though for him to make plans to see me again. Is he just busy with work, uninterested but responded to my emails to be nice, or is he waiting for me to make the move?

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4 Responses to “After The First Date.. Is He Busy Or Not Interested?”

  1. Oxy says:

    Usually guys are more aggressive on relationships (but not always), so I would say that you just need to call HIM out and ask him.

  2. dash says:

    TRY TO MEET HIM ONCE ..IF HE SHOWS ANY INTREST IN MEETING THEN THERE IS POSSIBILITY TO FALL DOWN IN LOVE..OTHERWISE….(NOT INTRESTED/BUSY)-COULD BE ANYTHING,,BUT YOU HAVE TO MOVE ON

  3. Kitty02 says:

    i think he’s just a little busy ler the week past and if he still doesn’t seem interested in you than just let i go.

  4. Kendall Fore says:

    I went through the same thing when I first started dating my boyfriend. Sometimes we still have problems due to his work schedule. Try your best to be patient because, I found that a lot of my worrying whether he was interested or not was for nothing. He was interested, just very busy. I talked to him today after posting a question yesterday about how to deal with his schedule. He said he loves me, but I have to realize that work has to come first right now. Just give it some time, time will tell. Also, he can’t read your mind. Tell him you miss him and are thinking about him, and would love to give him a stress relieving neck rub, or (FILL IN THE BLANK) when you see him LOL

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